Alcoholic bf

How do you handle this? We have been together 9 years and a few years ago it was real bad. Multiple DUIs, public intox, ect.he went to AA and became just a "social drinker " which is obviously still bad for an alcoholic but it was better then before. Things were okay for years and then we had a baby. The stress of a baby is alot obviously and hes back to his old ways. Always throwing up drunk, driving drunk, a complete dick to me. I cant trust him alone with the baby and I'm struggling. I try to bring it up and mention maybe he should lay back a little, or talk to someone or AA again and he freaks on me and tells me I'm no fun and such. I know I cant force him to stop but this is alot on me and I dont know how much longer I can go like this. Even his family just says it will pass hes just stressed let him be. I'm just worried about my mental health and my childs safety....