Mind blowing sex to mediocre

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When I was single l had a “friend”, we had the most mind blowing sex. He would lift me up, go down on me while standing up holding me, push me against the wall and rip my clothes off, etc.

I’m now engaged to the love of my life, father of my children, and our sex life sucks. The only thing he likes is doggy style, and is done within minutes. I couldn’t tell you the last time we had four-play.

Help! I’m never satisfied. How do I go about this.