Story & Suggestion: Is my husband sexually crazy or am I overthinking?

I am 29, and my husband is 28. We are sexually active monogamous coupe for more than 10 years. However, I think my husband is sexually too crazy for me. He wants me to talk dirty with him. He is always insisting me to wear lingerie, push up bras, thongs, sexy tight dress, and heels for him (I hate hills, I am not comfortable with it). He even buys most of them sometime without asking me, or when we shop together he helps me select them. He initiates sex most of the time. He says sex is a whole package as he wants to play with my boobs, use feather all over my body, lick my thighs, groin, neck, and pussy, but it drives me crazy to the level I can’t control and I scream which makes him upset. I don’t want to focus too much on foreplay, I rather have sex and get over with it, sometimes I want just a quickie. He wants to try different sexual positions; doggy style, cowgirl, squat on top of him, stand and carry, legs up, and happy baby are some of his favorite. He says we should explore more sexual ideas such as fingering my pussy, stimulating my g-spot, trying Sex toys (he even bought anal plug, handcuffs, feather, floggers, curved dildo to stimulate g spot, clit stimulator, bed restraint, role-play lingerie, cock ring and many more). He says he wants me to have multiple orgasm and squirt if it’s possible. I like to progress with things slowly I can’t get used to it too fast as it makes me uncomfortable. I think I am trying my best to change my sex habits but he thinks I am not putting enough efforts. I also have a pretty crazy work schedule, so I am always tired. He tells me if you are tired or not feeling well tell him in advance so he doesn’t expect anything but he gets mad when I change my mind at last moment most of then time. However, my husband is constantly horny, all the time. Once, he even asked me about my thoughts about threesome, I asked him what’s his thoughts are and he said he likes the idea, and ready to do it only if I am ok with it. Which made me so sad and I cried for some days. Later we had a conversation and he apologized to me. He told me if I don’t like the idea he doesn’t want it either. He only imagined about it if we both like the idea and if I am involved he thought 3 people is more fun than 2 people. He is either okay with MMF or FFM.But, I still can’t imagine about it as sex for me is the peak of love and intimacy. He says he is not hiding his fantasy or doing anything behind my back but he is just sharing his sexual fantasy with me because he think husband and wife should openly have all types of sexual conversation but I think he is not the same person he used to be. My family live with us so we don’t have too much privacy either. Whenever we argue about lack of sexual intimacy he always tells me that he loves me so much and I mean the world to him though he wants me to be more crazy in bed. Any comments, suggestions or idea. Please help me out ladies. Your comments means a lot to me.