Just Need to Vent

I feel like a terrible person and friend

My husband and I have been together almost 6 years, married for 2. I know that it sounds cliche but we knew we were soulmates from the first time we met. I literally love him more than anything. We have been having unprotected sex for almost 5 years now, we weren’t trying to prevent pregnancy. We’ve a a couple of chemicals over the years. For the past 2 and a half years we have been actively trying to get pregnant.

Fast forward to last month, my best friend from high school sends me a text to tell me she was pregnant. It was an accident from outside of her marriage. She decided to keep it though... and she’s not excited about it at all. I’ve tried so hard to be supportive of her in every way that I know possible. But every time she says that she’s not happy it’s like a little dagger to the heart. I’ve cried almost everyday over this and my husband as been really supportive of me. He feels like I need to tell her how her words are hurting me. But I don’t know how to say it without coming off as an insensitive ass.

Everyone around me knows that the ONLY job I’ve wanted in life (since I was about 6) was to be a mommy. Here she is growing a beautiful, healthy baby (that again, she decided to keep) and all she can do is complain. It’s hard. I just don’t know what to do.