Induction date
So, I’ve set my induction date but I’m so annoyed right now with my in laws. My in laws literally have no relationship with me but they keep calling my husband to see what is going on and how baby is doing. Today, his mom calls and says to let her know whenever I go to the hospital, no matter day or night. I’m annoyed because I want my parents who are always there for me and my husband to hold my baby first. I told my husband since my induction date is set for Sunday 8pm, why don’t we just let them know that “ hey, she’s in the hospital but baby will be born god knows when”. We will keep them posted. They can visit after the baby is born. I was going to do the same with my parents. I was thinking on calling my parents like 40 minutes before his parents to let them know that the baby is here so I can have my parents hold the baby. My husband tells me that his parents wants to know as soon as I go to the hospital so that they can come and wait all night outside. It just doesn’t make sense to me. Why would everyone want to lose sleep and watch me suffer in pain with contractions and cervical checks? I don’t have a relationship with them. I won’t be comfortable moaning or screaming or crying or whatever in front of these people. I’m not even comfortable laboring in front of my own mother and that’s why I’m suggesting calling her after the baby is born but before his family. I don’t know. I’m just annoyed with his family. His family has always done nothing but caused problems for me. Anyways, just wanted to vent out. I’m just frustrated that the joyous time of my life will be ruined by them. They sort of ruined my wedding by being there but showing everyone how unhappy they were. Now, they are going to take my son’s birth away from me.
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