I need intimacy advice....

It’s been 4 years. 4 amazing years. In the beginning I was everything. I felt like a princess and I always felt like he loved me more than I him. Now I feel like it’s reversed. He always wanted to be with me. Called me sexy. Wanted to have sex all the time. Fucked me on the floor. On the stairs. Made me cum over and over. The honeymoon phase is over. I get that. I accept that. But now? Now we have sex once a week. Maybe it’s been a bad month. But I don’t feel sexy. I feel unwanted. I sleep naked or just in panties. I touch him. I try to initiate. He told me maybe he’s just getting old. He’s 39. He immediately gets a boner though, 99% of the time. I’m starting to feel like I am his friend. Not his girlfriend. What do I do? I love this man more than anything. I’m 30. I’m horny. I want to be ravished. Begging for sex isn’t sexy. I am not going to do that. I want to be his girlfriend. How do I get us out of this rut?

We cuddle. We go to sleep with him holding me. We hold hands. He’s not never affectionate. I just want more of what we used to have....

No he’s not cheating on me. I do know that so please if your going to include that in your comment—just don’t comment. I don’t need it in my head so have the decency not to put it there. Thank you :)