I'm not sure if I'm sexually attracted to her anymore

My wife and I just got married two months ago. I was thrilled! Extremely so. I love my wife. So so much. Going into the wedding, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that she's who I wanted to adventure through life with. And I still feel that way. I want to be with her until the sun burns out

But we never have sex.

I have a very high sex drive. I like kinky sex and I like a lot of it. My wife has a low sex drive and is very vanilla. After two years of talking about it and working on our sex life, she admitted that she thought she might be asexual. So I backed off. Way off. She said she felt pressured anytime I propositioned her for sex. So I stopped. I stopped asking for sex, hinting about sex, talking about sex. I didn't want to make her uncomfortable. We've had sex a handful times in the last six months. And at first, I noticed, but it didn't really get to me. I thought maybe we had just found our middle ground. But now, I'm realizing, I don't even desire sex from her anymore. Would I like sex? Yes. Specifically from her? I don't know. It's like I forced my libido to not want her as to spare her feelings. But...it's like....I shut all of that attraction off accidentally...if that makes sense?

I have no desire to have sex with anyone else really. The idea of having sex with someone else hurts my heart. But at the same time, the idea of having sex with her does nothing for me.

This is recent. If you had asked me three months ago, I don't think this is how I would have said I feel. I don't know what to do. We have a couple counseling consultantation next monday...