Too young...

So I want to know if I’m the only one! I am only 23 and I just want to skip to the part of my life where I’m married and have a nice family and nice home. I have trouble staying in the moment and realizing that it’s not as easy as I think. Life isn’t a fairy tale and who knows I may not even get that. Idk why I’m not normal and just wanna party and do stupid shit like any other 23 year old. I am about to graduate college I’m May. How tf do I slow things down in my head and am I the only one who thinks like this.