Fell far behind after controlling relationship

So after I left my ex boyfriend I found myself in a deep hole.

He made me get rid of my bank account

Made me legally change my address

Etc..

So now I’m having to restart everything in my life /: there’s so much more I can’t even start to explain but I just don’t even know where to start. I just don’t.

There’s so many things I need to do, like find my son a new school- but to do that I need to drive 60 miles to an office to give them his birth certificate and three paystubs, then I need to call around to find a school that accepts assistance.

I have cut my hours due to my mental health as well as not having child care :(

I feel like such a loser and failure. I’ve been in bed a lot ignoring these issues and just falling more behind. My bills are due but I don’t have a bank account to pay them with.

I don’t know what to do or how to start it just seems like so much.