Feeling distant from partner after having a baby

Kelly

Does anyone else feel not as close to their husband/partner after having bub?

Nothings really changed between us apart from having a baby but there’s just not as much love there for some odd reason (from my end, he seems the same as before bub).

I think it could partly be because I feel like I don’t get much help from him, like I’m looking after bub all day which is pretty easy but on top of that I do all the house cleaning and cooking most of the time and even when my partners home he doesn’t really offer to help me until I ask. Really gets to me. I feel like he thinks because I’m home all day I’m all fresh and rested to do everything around the house. It makes me feel quite spiteful.

Anyone in the same boat? As I’m feeling pretty shitty atm and not sure if it’s something to bring up with him or not..