idk why

my boyfriend keeps calling me fat and making it as a joke or he will grab my tummy and tell me i’m a big girl and tries to make it a joke. i’m not stupid i know this isn’t okay well obviously i am stupid because i let him and when i try to call him out he says he was joking. he always says things like “you’re so clingy,and possessive” we were cuddling and i was trying to rub on his arm and he asked me to stop saying it tickles and he doesn’t understand why i always have to be touching him. we also used to have sex all the time and now we’re barely having any but i know he’s not cheating physically because we are together 24/7 i’ve also noticed that i don’t think i’ve ever made him come because he doesn’t really care if i do