Rough times
How can I continue staying married to someone when his family does not want me around, and hates me? He hasn't really spent so much time with his family, we both know it, however they hate me and wished I left his life. They do not support the idea of him being married to me. I can't trust these people and theres no way of even fixing the relationship at all. There has been so much hate, I just wish I could fix it all because deep down it does bother me too. I wish we could all find a way to offer forgiveness but that's not an option and I never told this man he couldn't see his family. I feel like the right thing is to move on from him and it's a pretty crappy feeling. Honestly I feel stuck and I never wanted this to be a reason to get divorced. Your probably wondering what I did wrong. Well theres so much that has went on over the years just decided it's best for me to stay in my lane and for them to stay in theirs. I never held him back from them and he is actually accusing me of that when never have I said it. Bothers me. Last year around this time we had marital problems for some reason I cannot remember. Probably had to do with the family situation. So anyways this is now my 2nd christmas going thru this rough patch that has totally destroyed my marriage. I recently got a dog and I'm torn. I would take her with me but I'm unsure if I even can do that. I haven't figured that out yet. I can't loose her. Cannot afford my own place either. Just all sucks. Everything has come out. Those nights my husband and I would sit on the couch watching movies for what? Deep down we didn't want to be with one another. I feel so helpless. Didn't want my marriage to end like this, especially because of family. Maybe all this will be a blessing in disguise but right now I'm not feeling any type of way, just holding my emotions together.
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