Birth control

When your on birth control pill and you know that you take it perfectly or as close to perfect as possible, do you worry about pregnancy? Do you let your partner finish inside of you? I’m on the pill and I have an alarm set and i take at the same time everyday give or take a minute at the most. We use condoms and my boyfriend pull out but I’m always super paranoid about getting pregnant. I think it’s starting to effect my mental health and I don’t know how to get over it. We are both adults with really good jobs and have talked about getting married but I really don’t want to get pregnant out of wedlock. It wouldn’t be ideal with my job because I’m training for a management position and could be placed anywhere in the state in the next year and I think I’m worried about what people would think of me if I accidentally got pregnant.