romance help

my hubby does not show emotion at all and i’m the total opposite. So I get shy and quiet all the time

he always sit on the couch , while i put my head on his lap and lay on the couch

what are some ways to spice this up

like take his hand and kiss him

massage his legs

i don’t know 😂

help pls

does not have to lead up to sex , just something cute

i don’t know what to do