Sex with my husband is usually somewhat rough. (We both like it that way). He recently said he would like me to take the lead. Well...that’s a speed bump for me since he’s better at initiating, being spontaneous, you name it 😂 But I want to do it. I also would like this time to go the more “gentle” route instead of rough. I’m pregnant and my back is killing me, so the idea of rough isn’t calling my name 😂

I could use some help. Even though he knows I’ll be initiating at some point, I would still like to do it in a way that surprises him. And a way to keep it gentle/intimate...but still as exciting as doing it kinda rough. It’s been a while since the last time we had sex (since I’ve been so tired), so I know he’ll go for pretty much anything...but I want to make it extra special. Any advice or ideas?