Found out how awful everyone's 2019s were today so i guess I'm not alone. Had people left and right telling me unexpected things today, I guess they were getting them off their chest before the end of the year. Random people I haven't talked to in a year plus. Divorces and miscarriages all around. Sigh. (Seriously. Heard from 3 random former colleagues on their unexpected divorces, and 2 on their 2019 miscarriages. That's on top of all the ones I already knew about.)