Sick of getting compared to my cousins

Sorry for the rant

My grandparents always seem to compare me to my cousins. I’m 21 and they are 19 and 18.

ive worked a fifo job working 84hours a week. Bought my own car and have savings. And studied at uni (I did defer because the course I was doing was not something I could see myself doing for life). But am going back second semester with a different course.

And yet my grandparents never say I’m doing well or anything. They like to talk about how well the two other cousins are doing. But they are just working part time jobs for family friends. Neither have any ambitions of qualifications or uni.

They are like “oh yes J and T have both moved out into their own places now”. But the only reason my cousins have afforded to move out of home is because my grandparents bought them both each their own houses. And bought them expensive cars and race cars and parts.

I don’t even get a birthday card on my birthday. I’m not really complaining about material things as I don’t want anything off them. I just don’t think it’s nice to compare me to my cousins when it’s not an even playing field when everything they are getting praised for, are just things they have had bought for them.

:(( just got off a phone call to my grandparents saying myself and my boyfriend are expecting a baby. Which just ended with me in tears as they put me down