Anyone have late term loss obsession?

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Now that I'm out of the first trimester, I keep looking up statistics on second trimester losses. Low risk genetic testing and HB/baby measures perfectly.

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Unfortunately once you see the two lines you will never stop worrying. First, make it to 12 weeks, then obsessed with still births, when they are born you’ll check a thousand times that they are breathing and now that my little boy is almost 3 I worry about someone hurting him of him getting very sick. 
My advice is to limit your time in this app and focus on the positive, I’m pretty sure I developed postpartum anxiety with my first because of this.

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I do worry about this. A friend of mine lost her baby at 8 months, with no solid cause of death known. So yes, I’ve seen it and I know it can happen so of course I worry. But, here’s the thing. The minute you see those two pink lines your life changes. You think you’ll stop worrying when you’re out of the first trimester, but then there are new worries. You think you’ll stop worrying when the baby comes, but when they do there’s a whole host of new worries. My daughter is 3 and I constantly worry about her - I’ll worry about her til the day I die, and the same goes for my son, who isn’t born yet. In some ways I feel less worried about him bc I know where he is, he’s safe and he’s with me. Her though - she’s exposed to the world in a way I can’t always control and that scares me. BUT I have to get used to it. We all have to find a way to manage the worry because it’s not going to suddenly go away, you know?

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Yes!!! I’m such a nervous wreck. I’m currently 12 weeks pregnant and I’m so scared. It is my first pregnancy also. 
I told myself I would calm down and enjoy the pregnancy once I heard the heartbeat. I’ve heard it twice at 6 weeks & again at 8 weeks. Then I told myself that I would calm down once I’m out the first trimester. Then I read certain comments and decided it will be better once I’m 20 weeks along or 25 weeks along. 🤦🏽‍♀️
Truth is that we are mothers & it’s gonna be our natural instinct to always worry and fear for our little babies. I guess it’s a mother’s love & the term “mama bear” is definitely real. I guess we have to learn that life is so unexpected & we must enjoy the journey & be great evil as it goes along!!!! 💕

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Yes. Everything and all testing for my boy came back normal and he stopped growing 13 and 5. I found out at my 15 week appt. right now I’m 12 and 6 but baby girl is measuring four days ahead. I am trying to just remain positive and just dream of holding her. I think we all worry ❤️🌈

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Yes, I have had 24wk late 2nd trimester stillborn. I'm constantly worried and especially close to that week. She was completely healthy and my water was slowly leaking and had no clue 😔. To me there is no safe zone. So yes... This is something that petrifies me severely. My anxiety has gone up severely since losing her July 2017.

Anyone have late term loss obsession?

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