A little back story: my fiance was sweet in the beginning and stupid me said yes after only 7 months. We rented a house that we got evicted from by the state due to bat infestation and the landlord not fixing it. So we moved 3 hours away to his grandma's where I cant work because I have no child care or car. Mind you I have 2 kids from a previous marriage. She has been giving me the silent treatment now since christmas day (10 days) because she is sick, and missing her late husband who has been gone for 3.5 years. (Like that's my fault). I want to move back to my town where all my family is but he refuses as he doesn't want to look for a new job and he doesn't like my mom. If I go home I can use my moms car and get a job and get myself back on track... but he is wanting to stay here paying $1000 a month to his grandma because he says he wont find a job down there that pays right or that he will enjoy. He is a narcissist. What do I do?

Edit: He knows I'm not happy but he tells me that if he goes down there he will be shelled up and depressed. And that he will be distant. So it's either me be unhappy here or leave him and hope he doesn't commit suicide like he threatened before and I stayed!

Edit 2: I am packing now as he is at work and I will be leaving sunday. I simply told him that I wasn't happy as he knows and that I need to get right with myself. My kids deserve better and if he chooses to want to continue our relationship he will either come with me sunday or he can stay behind. His reply was "im glad you want to make yourself happy." So I am. :) thank you for reading and giving that little bit more encouragement that I needed!