I’m submissive but so is my boyfriend ):

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we do have a lot of sex, but it’s pretty much stayed the same. Really basic and “vanilla”. I’m submissive and I like to be dominated, I like rough aggressive sex.. but my boyfriend isn’t dominant. He wants me to take control but it does nothing for me and I’m completely not interested in that. Are we just sexually incompatible bc I don’t know what to do