My friend has a boyfriend who I openly dont like. Yadayada. He told her that he feels threatened by her being pansexual. He thinks that she could leave him for a girl or a guy and that hes in competition with everyone. She thinks that's a valid concern. I was like "wtf no its not." I he should trust her a little more and give her more credit. I would flip the fuck out if some dude ever told me that. Obviously he can have his concerns or whatever, but the way he said it. He brought it up while they were fighting and he guilt trpped her with it like "I act this way because you're pansexual". I dont know how to help her see that this guy is shit when it's so obvious to me. It's like shes not seeing it when it's so obvious.