So we announced our pregnancy at a family event everyone seemed excited but then and hour later my husbands cousins wife also announced they were pregnant and yupp everyone loved them more people started crying and hugging them we felt terrible and then come to find out they are due a month after me but yet everyone stopped caring about my baby and only there's been holding on to this for days now and I announced my pregnancy on facebook then she did it feels like a competition and I really do not want my baby to feel like everything is a competition while growing up