I'm newly married and my husband has given me access to all his assets. He's in the military and comes from a middle class family, I'd say upper middle class. Two of his sisters have their own businesses. I've been poor all my life. The difference in what we both think are reasonable when it comes to spending blows my mind. I'm still getting used to it after seven years knowing him. Honestly it's really strange having money and not needing anything. I've always had to wait for things but now if I want something I can get it myself. I am blessed with an amazing man who trusts me and wants to take care of me. He doesn't care that I don't want to be a housewife either, he supports my dreams and goals and encourages me to pursue them. I just feel so blessed and wanted to share.