I'm pregnant and my friend had a miscarriage

I just found out from my husband after meeting with one of his friends, that his wife had a miscarriage last month. We've become close via their friendship but just haven't hung out in a couple months.

Last time we talked, she told me that she was getting her IUD removed and they were going to start trying.

I just hurt for her so much and want to do whatever I can to support and love her well, but I also know that me being in my third trimester could make that difficult.

What makes the situation even harder is that she offered to host my baby shower at her house (another friend is throwing it but she offered to have it at her house) which is in less than 2 weeks... my husband talked with her husband about whether that was still okay (and that it's not a big to switch places), but he insisted that my friend really wants to do this for me. 😞

We're hanging out with them on Tuesday for dinner, but I've just been hurting for them since I found out, and not really knowing how to best support them.