TRIGGER WARNING: i need to vent

So I have this “friend” that I’ve became pretty close to within a year. She’s a few months younger than I am and we’re both moms of twins.

I have twin boys who are almost 2 and I have a daughter who is 7 months, she has twins girls who are also almost 2, and she has a son who is 4 months.

I’m not trying nor am I preventing of having another child, if it happens it happens, you know?

But with the twins it took me a year to get pregnant, so I’ll always have that TTC mindset and I’ll be upset if I seen a negative result but I’m sure I’ll be stressed if I seen a positive, but not necessarily in a bad way if that makes sense?

Anywho, she found out she’s pregnant and the other day she told me that I couldn’t “afford” to get pregnant again (idk, we’re stable and stocked up on everything so idk why she said that?) and she goes to say that I should do adoption or abortion and that I have no self love and value for myself, so of course it pissed me off and I didn’t want to talk anymore🤷🏼‍♀️

So yesterday she goes in to her OBGYN appointment (her last period was October 24) and they only seen a sac, no yolk sac or baby visible, which of course is a sad situation not knowing what’s going on, but in my eyes, I see it as karma.

It’s karma because you put another woman down about being POSSIBLY pregnant, now look..

and even if I was me and my husband care for OUR kids as a team and as we should, so someone who doesn’t pay bills shouldnt have an opinion about anything💁🏼

Of course I didn’t say anything, but that’s how I view it.

Am I wrong? Do you see where I’m coming from?