I had my second baby 5 weeks ago. Since then my 3 year old has worked every nerve in my damn body. She jumps on the bed when the baby is laying there. She has stopped peeing in the big girl potty. I’m pretty sure she spite poops her pants (she pooped her pants 4 times yesterday and every time I’d put her on the toilet and she would scream and cry and get her self off then poop not even 5 minutes later). She is CONSTANTLY in the baby’s face or in my face even though I tell her she needs to respect personal space. She has started to scream and growl and tell me I’m not a good mom when I tell her no. I am at my wits end. I know she’s had a big change but nothing I do it helping her adjust. I take time everyday to just do stuff with her. She also helps be bake something or make dinner every night. We even had a mommy daughter date the other day but the moment I sit down to nurse or change the baby or even just hold the baby she’s right back to being a terror. Any advice on how to help this child adjust?