Do you think it’s harder?

Question

Do you think it’s harder to leave a cheating boyfriend/husband when you have children with them? I know some women say “idk how to leave him..” just wondering if it would be harder?

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I guess it depends on the surrounding circumstances. I was 6.5 months pregnant when I left my daughters father, but there are also people who have unfortunately put themselves in the position to become completely codependent on someone and it’s just not that easy to just walk away bc they have absolutely no where to go and unfortunately their entire identity is wrapped up in them. Some like to isolate you away from your family and friends, so you have no where to turn to or feel like you don’t have anywhere to turn. The answer isn’t always as cut and dry and we may like to think it is.

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I think it would be a lot harder with kids and living together, relying on one another as a team. 
Certainly, your life could be thrown into disarray leaving your relationship if you rely on each other. Perhaps you don't have anywhere to go or the means to survive or take care of your children. 
It's also harder to put children through that, I think. I think it's scarier to seperate, not knowing how the situation will impact the kids.

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honestly some women on here pull that stupid card (yes. stupid. because it is. hear me out) pull the card “we have kids and i don’t want them to grow up in a divided house BLA BLA BLA” when in reality it’s already “divided” because the parent are already resentful towards each other/going through their own things and taking it out on their kids. 
i just wish some women would quit using their kids as a reason/excuse to stay with a shitty men because what if the kids wanted whats best for their parents too ?

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It was actually easier to leave my sons father more than my ex who I didn’t have any children with. The reason wasn’t cheating from neither.

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I left my kids dad for that and him abusing me. I did love him and it was hard. But knowing I had my kid to worry about made it so much easier. I left anf never looked back. My kid gave me the strength to get out of that. And there was no way I was letting him touch me again knowing he was sleeping with other women and he wasn't using protection.

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My baby’s dad was mentally abusive and super controlling pretty much as soon as I found out I was pregnant I left him and came back to my parent. Knowing I had a child to raise and that they’re look at our relationship as a base of what they should settle for gave me the strength to leave and never look back. Now whenever her dad tries to pull some manipulative shit I don’t tolerate it and call him out on it. Baby’s not here yet so I’m hoping he figured his shit out soon

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No I’d leave with no explanation. Cut off all communication with everyone until I got myself established.

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