Ruining my marriage
Is anyone else having a hard time with their SO? š Iām a FTM and Iām pretty sure I have PPD, and havenāt done anything about it. I tried changing my lifestyle first (eating better/working out) but itās not helping. I have a doctors appointment in the morning.
Our baby is 3mo old now and ever since the baby- my husband and I just donāt have time for each other anymore. Heās busy working a lot to support us and Iām so busy with our little guy and taking care of the house. I start fights bc I think he could be helping me more than he is, he gets breaks/I donāt. Iām exhausted and Iām taking it out on my husband. I donāt mean to but I am. Affection is gone. Intimacy is gone. Simple things like complimenting each other is just gone bc were so stressed out and mad at each other. My husband is already talking about possibly getting a divorce. Idk if he means it but we havenāt talked at all in two days. Idk why we are struggling so bad. I honestly feel like Iām not being appreciated. Iām the type of person that just needs to be told Iām important at times, held or even kissed but I havenāt had any of that since the baby. My husband and I try to talk but it always ends up in a fight. How did you and your SO get through this? Idk what else to do besides try medication for PPD bc I am suffering from it pretty bad. Idk if that would fix everything else though. š
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