Should I give him another chance?

My husband is in mexico I'm in cali, my baby was born dec 12th but he had to go to the NICU and he's still there I've bee having a really hard time without both of them. My husband seems to drink more becuase he tried to get a Visa.. we knew my baby was going to be in the NICU for a while so i sent him doc reports and everything to prove that he needed to be here he didnt get it. I get he feels terrible that hes not here with us but he drinks way to much and wants to go out to parties which for me is not fair ... becuase I want him to be here for me and when he aruge he says the most disrespectful shit to me this has been going on even since I was pregnant to be honest and I just dont think it's fair today we argued so bad I went off he basically said we were done but hes asking for another chance and I truly dont know what to do I love him but at the same time I hate how he talks to me like that or maybe I'm just wrong maybe I should let him go out idk someone please help me.