Due in 5 days need help managing my alcoholic father

So I have a horrible relationship with my dad. He's a RAGING alcoholic who has been in and out of jail my whole life. My visitation with him was my grandma picking me and my dad up cuz he didn't have a house nor could he drive and he'd go in the back and get drunk while I spent time with my grandma. Well since I've been an adult I've barely chosen to spend time with him, especially since I started dating my husband 6 years ago and he threatened to "kill that "Jihadi" motherf***er" my husbands parents are Catholic Albanian immigrants ....my dad is also very violent (never to me but to everyone else). Well he went to jail after that for something probably drunk driving when he got out he called me, per usual my guilt got to me and I agreed to speak to him again. We saw eachother like twice between then and a few years after (he'd text every once in a while) the last time I saw him he was so drunk he called me sexy! I felt unsafe for my self and had to basically run out the door cuz he was blacked out and I'm pretty sure thought I was my mom. That day he had nothing but Popov and butter in his fridge like I'm not talking about oh my dad drinks I'm talking about raging alcoholism. He went to rehab for the like 700th time after that, got out, remembered none of that day. Again because of guilt I told him he could come to my wedding like a year later if he stayed sober, COME, not walk me down the aisle, nothing. He came, he was drunk. My family tried to say it was okay cuz he wasn't beligerant and only drank beer. He never even met my husband at my wedding. We texted a few times in between that's it. Well I find out I'm pregnant and I decide to tell him because in my mind it's better to tell him than for him to find out and have to deal with the stress and the drama. So he finally meets my husband, we tell him, and he immediately starts going off about how much he's gonna do with my daughter. He texts all the time long drawn out texts about how he was a good dad and I just don't remember, how "he's grandpa" etc. I DO NOT want him in her life like that. I told him he could come to the hospital to avoid drama and because he's NOT coming to my house because I don't want him knowing where I live. How do I tell him that he is not using my daughter as his scapegoat to try and get rid of his guilt for being a horrible father? Like I honestly think he needs to just shut up and be grateful that he gets to see her at the hospital and maybe once a year after. That's how often he sees me, why on Earth would it be any different for MY daughter? I want to tell him to be realistic about his expectations without causing him to go insane and cause me even more stress. I'm just lost, even seeing a text from him spirals me, I hate him. I only let him in on certain things because although he deserves nothing from me I feel guilty because he has no one because he's such a drunken POS that EVERYONE else has cut him off. Any advice? I'm seriously at a loss.