Using a sperm donor

Haley • Looking to add a mini to our happily ever after 💗

Hi ladies. My husband and I found out after 2 semen analysis and a surgery that he is still not producing sperm. We have decided to use a sperm donor. How did everyone’s husbands react? How did you all tell your families/friends you’re using a donor. Did you tell anyone? My husband and I are thinking about just keeping it to ourselves. I’ve told my mom and best friend but we’re not sure we want to share that information with anyone else. At least until we know how to handle it.