9DPO and a BFN

Hello out there!

Longtime lurker First time posting.

My husband and I have been TTC for about 6 months now. I am currently 9dpo and I’m soooo nauseous today, my breasts are tingly and heavy, I’ve been having slight cramping since about 5dpo (nothing like AF cramps) and my lower back has been hurting.

I took a hpt today and it was a BFN. I’m moderately discouraged but I know that it’s still really early. I don’t know if I’m seeking advice or if I just needed to vent to people who understand 😔