Are you kidding me?

So get this y’all. My mother asked this of me because she was working late. My mom works her ass OFF and works through pain and disability because she doesn’t want to stop working, it just means something to her. So when she asks me to do something I do it. I know people have been like nah fuck all that when I’ve talked about this before but there’s a good reason that I continue. She’s also like not okay right now because she’s having surgery next Thursday and had to stop taking all the medication she was taking to help her pain. She’s miserable. Let’s call the older brother D and the younger one J

My teenage siblings have become SO entitled to things man. They think im a taxi cab. She told me that I was picking up D from wrestling practice and taking J to weigh in. Shouldn’t take more than a few mins. So I’m waiting there for 25 minutes and eventually go inside and the couch tells me that they’re staying until 6. It was 4 and neither of my brothers felt the need to come and tell me that the coach wanted them to stay, and that coach had no idea that they had someone outside waiting on them. The coach apologized to me and I could tell he felt really bad and I was like it’s not your fault it’s theirs and he got onto them about needing to communicate better. I told my mom about this and it pissed her off. She told me to take their video games and put them in her room but when my brothers got back I learned that D had no idea that I was waiting outside and thought I just dropped J off. I wanted to know why, like why didn’t anyone think to go tell me that I could leave. Did they just expect me to wait outside for 2 hours? It’s inconsiderate

J looked at me and said “so. I don’t care.”

So I went off. I sounded so much like my mom it scared me. “You are acting so entitled. Having rides to all your wrestling and football practices and games is a privilege. Our mom works her ass off. You’re not entitled to her gas money or mileage on her car to take you to these things that you enjoy. Her job is to make sure you have what you need, not this. And I’m not your mom, you’re not entitled to my gas money or mileage on my car either. When someone is giving you a ride, you need to be considerate and communicate with them. When your coach said you were staying until 6 you should have said “hey my sister doesn’t know that and she’s waiting outside.” So that someone could’ve informed me.” He just looked at me and laughed so I took his games. I might play me some fort nite. Hes salty af. And I’ve already talked to my mom, if this happens again it’s up to me if they get to go to practice or games because they just keep taking advantage of me. D is really doing better with that but J doesn’t give a rats ass. Like I am so done with this inconsiderate crap. They’ve started taking advantage of the fact that my mom doesn’t have the means to deal with bs right now.

Don’t blame her for pretty much letting me decide because she’s miserable and exhausted right now.

Like it’s just unbelievable.