Visitors!

So I’m due next week and have had this overwhelming feeling of anxiety these last few days. I’m not close to my in laws, if anything the relationships fractious at best. They say & do awful things to my other half and have never been very interested in our life, his sister is even worse. She has said horrendous things to myself and my other half but expects me to just forgive and forget.

They all want to visit whilst I’m at the hospital, I haven’t spoken to my sil since she said some really awful things or his parents since they were so hurtful towards my other half. They all expect just to be given the right to meet our little boy, am I harsh not wanting them there? I’ve said they can visit once we are home but my other half feels guilty.

Any advice would be much appreciated!!! I’m so anxious about it all and just want to be focussing on bringing my baby boy into the world.