Why is it so hard to stay pregnant...

Question

I know this may sound silly but I have had the most challenging year....I had my first chemical in April of 2019 and then I had a miscarriage around 11 weeks in November 2019 and now it appears that I’m going through another chemical....what is wrong with me?? And most doctors just chalk it up to bad luck?? I need some reassurance at this time that I still have hope :(

Answer

I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. Just remember that you are strong and can get through this and your time will come.
Have you done any research on low progesterone levels? It might be something to read up on and bring up with your doctor. 
Also I don't know, it might just be me, but you might want to look into finding another doctor? Unless you're really attached to the one you have. "Bad luck" is not something I'd want my doctor to say when referring to my challenges of having a baby.
Also maybe look into having the quality of your eggs looked at? 
My husband and I are also trying to conceive (1+ years) and its been a challenge.

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I’m so sorry to hear this. We are trying for our second and going through my first chemical now. Got a positive digital test on Tuesday and had light spotting the same day. Called doctor and went in for hcg test, it was 10. They said you’re either going to lose it or you’re very early. Just tested again today with a cheapie stuck and there’s absolutely no line. I’ve been crying on and off for 3 days randomly because not knowing what’s going on has been so hard. Now I’m just waiting for a period bleed so I can have some closure. Feels like this week has lasted an eternity...they’ll have me back next week to make sure hcg is back down to zero. You’re not alone. ❤️

Why is it so hard to stay pregnant...

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