What would you do??

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First off I want to say I’m sorry for bringing this here I know some of y’all have been trying so hard to get pregnant and it’s hard to see irresponsible stories like this. I’m only 20 and I haven’t told my mom because I’m scared to death and I know some of you are older and could give motherly advice.
Me and this guy I was messing around with were irresponsible and I’m now pregnant. 7 weeks on sunday. I have NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. I’m very pro choice but have always had it in my head I am pro life for myself...until this happened. When I told the guy he was so adamant on abortion, he just kept forcing it on me. I told him I made up my mind to shut him up and that I’m having it. He’s very upset but says he’ll be there only for the baby when it’s born, not me during this. So now I’m like should I even do this? He hates me because I made this choice, he’s saying I’m ruining his life and throwing away everything he’s worked for. (Which makes me feel terrible). I live all alone in a one bedroom apartment doing fine but barely making it. I would need my parents help, government help and I just don’t know if I want my child to live that kind of life with parents that barely know eachother. But would it be worth killing them? I’m struggling so hard with this decision. I have nervous breakdowns almost every night just thinking about it while trying to fall asleep. 
Please mamas give your honest advice.

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I firmly believe that unless a woman 110% wants an abortion herself, it will haunt her. Kids don't need to be in an "ideal life". They don't need square footage, they don't need both parents together. They need stability, love, and basic needs like food and some clothing. If you want this baby, go for it. If you don't, but you're against abortion, adoption is another option.

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i personally feel you need to go see a therapist to talk about this. it is your body and your choice and i won’t say what i would do because it isn’t me. but you can’t base your decisions off this man or let him influence what you do.. things change everyday he could wake up tomorrow and be so excited to be a father. and not every child who gets government assistance lives a horrible life, sometimes people need a little help. it’s ok to be scared and confused . but taking to your mom may really help you.

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They have a pill option you might want to see about that if you aren't trying to do the full on ab.
But you need to hurry because past a certain time it wont work

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I don’t have any advice for you but this would be better off in the Abortion Support group and I mean that in the nicest way possible.

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imo I would get the abortion. But that’s just me

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Oh honey, there are so many options! I am from Wisconsin and we have a Non for Profit group here called “Seeds of Hope”. This group helps Mothers and/ or Fathers through the process of moving forward with a pregnancy, or placing a child up for adoption. They raise money and then assist mothers with all of her prenatal and postnatal care, along with giving guidance...They however do not assist with abortions.....If raising this child something you wish for, I’m sure there are groups where you live that do this. ❤️🥰 Please let me know if you have any questions!

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