is everyone on this app too hasty to say ‘leave him’?

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I notice a lot of relationship problems, even people in marriages or relationships involving kids etc where literally every single comment response is saying to leave the guy without doubt.
Is it really that clear cut obvious that they should just up and leave regardless of them being married or having kids?
Im not talking about the situations with straight up physical abuse or cheating etc
Just sometimes seems like ‘he called me names when he was mad’ = ‘toss the whole husband/father out!’
Anyone else feel that way?

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No form of abuse should be tolerated, including verbal. It's not healthy. So your example was horrid.

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I’m surprised at a lot of the crap people put up with here quite frankly. I think a lot of women are afraid to leave situations when they deserve so much better. 
Unfortunately a lot of the time here it is clear abuse. Verbal and physical abuse are never ok. That becomes a safety issue for mother and child.

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Abuse shouldn’t be tolerated in any relationship and especially when children are around to see or hear it.

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calling someone names when they're mad is abuse wtf

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No. In fact, I’d argue that society socializes people (but especially women) into romanticizing really toxic relationship behaviors and convinces people that if they aren’t giving 110% of themselves to maintain a relationship then they are a failure. 
That is simply wrong and incredibly unhealthy. 
People should think about ending a relationship sooner than they usually do.

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It's verbal abuse, if it happens over and over again it is ABUSE. Period

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Most women who post on here already know that they should leave their SO and just need back up, so that's what we are here for.

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Honestly, most of those relationships should have never even started, those women should have dumped them in the process of dating. Unfortunately, we're taught to put up with a lot of shit, and often have children with shitty men. Maybe it's time we raised our standards so men might learn how to treat us right instead of being forgiven over and over.

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You literally gave an example of abuse 😂🤦‍♀️
Most of the time when people are complaining, they either let out that THEY are abusive, their partner is abusive, or they’re both abusive. The best solution in all those situations is to leave

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If you feel you deserve to be treated like shit... I say “shantay you stay”!

If you have self respect and self love then yup leave him!!

is everyone on this app too hasty to say ‘leave him’?

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