My husband and I have been in a relationship 7 years now (married for 4). We had a lovely relationship and an excellent sex life but everything changed after having a baby (sad but true). We still love each other and it feels like we’re good parents, we love our daughter so much and we spend a good amount of time together. But together means “daddy mommy and baby” and not “husband and wife”. We barely have enough time to spend with each other (just us two) and by the time our baby is asleep, we’re both too tired for intimacy.

I am grateful for my baby girl and for all the joy she brings me but I feel like I’ve lost the love of my life.

How do I bring back the spark? Any suggestions would help.