I started ttc working in an amazing team with a people oriented manager who asked flexibility but offered in return, we were operating in a great autonomic team where there was respect for everyone.

So one day senior management decided.. Let's give that team a new manager, let's give them a dictator type of supervisor let's change 90% of their tasks and remove all the flex that is rewarding and usefull to them but demand from them all flexibility for the company.

This caused so much stress I've lost a baby (very early) , I pushed trough that and even worked that same week (happened in the weekend) months later I had to go into extended sick leave because my systems were failing because of my stress levels. I was blacking out, losing balance, having gastric issues and above all, getting pregnant was not in the cards, which also added to the stress.

So while in sick leave trying to recover from my elevated stress levels, I've gotten pregnant. Now needing the money I went back.. I'm in my first month back and it has only gotten worse.. There's hostility, ego tripping, extra non-flexibility, no trust, people messing with my planning behind my back...

Guess what I was wondering is.. Is this normal? Are they just trying to bully me out? Am I taking this too personal?

And also.. How are things at your work space? Any of this shit happening or is it just here?