What age did people start asking u when ur having kids?

Okay I am getting so annoyed lol. Me and my boyfriend are only 21 years old and we went to a family party the other day and no joke we had ATLEAST 6 different family members ask when we are gonna have kids or tell my fiancé he would be a great dad. I’m just like uhh? I literally couldn’t even purchase alcohol until this year, I don’t think it’s time for a baby.. but i was just wondering, when did people start asking you and your s/o?

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Je

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Zero people asked. It’s intrusive and no ones business lol

na

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29 probably. I got married 10 days before my 30th birthday. I still don't have people asking that often. Maybe because I send out the vibes...
29 probably. I got married 10 days before my 30th birthday. I still don't have people asking that often. Maybe because I send out the vibes...

Da

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22 , once my husband and I got engaged. My dad openly asked every time we'd visit . Then when we announced we were pregnant with our first my dad admitted that him, my sister,my aunt and his mom were all guessing when we'd start having babies 🤷‍♀️! I'm going to be 25 next week and am expecting my second on march.

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I'm 27 and people have been asking since we got engaged. That's been 3.5 yrs. Still no kids due to infertility. We are almost on 4 yrs of trying. When people ask about it, depends how my mood is, depends how my reply is! People need to learn to respect people and not ask about kids. They dont know what you're going through

Me

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They didn’t even have a chance to ask lol I was already pregnant with my first at 21

Me

Me • Jan 30, 2020
There’s never a right age when it comes to having children. I personally feel if you and your SO are ready to start a family then you should go for it. When I first got pregnant it was something me and my husband wanted at the time and we are still here with 3 kids, one on the way lol

xy

xyz.abc • Jan 30, 2020
Do you think 21 is a good age to have a kid? If you don’t mind me asking. Like the more I’m thinking I guess I’m not that young to have a child lol

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They asked when I was going to give my daughter a sibling.. which was weird considering I had her when I was 18 (with a POS sperm donor) and they were asking that when I was 19No thanks lol she got her sister eventually after turning 7 years old 😂 we also have a way better mister dad around now too.