My friend is 19 and found out she was pregnant in October or November... she was pretty into her pregnancy. She got pregnant around June or July.

Anyhow i don’t think she’s had ANY prenatal care because she didn’t know how far along she was!

She texts me last night about pains happening every 10 mins and i told her she needs to time them!

So her water broke today and they said she’s 34 weeks..

She’s giving the baby up for adoption and told me that if she had known earlier she would have aborted the baby.

I just found out i am pregnant with my second today.. (except I’m 20 my baby was planned and I’m engaged)

So this really hits me in a spot..

I feel for her but I’m also angry at her for not getting prenatal care and being careless and smoking weed while pregnant 😭

I’m trying to be supportive but it’s hard ..

I feel bad for her but i also feel really bad for this baby..