What could he want?

Soooo my husband and I have been separated since June 20, 2019...We last saw each other July 8th, 2019 when we were finishing our walk through with the house we rented. I have not heard ANYTHING from him since that day. I told him that if he had anything he needed to say that he should contact my mom as I do not want to hear from him.

Welllll....fast forward to this month. I am thinking of joining the Air Force to move from the state I am living in and to light a fire under my ass.

I told my mom, hey contact D and ask him what I can do to help get this paperwork finished as I do not want to have to keep coming back to this state to deal with the divorce.

He messages her back two days later saying that he wants to talk to me directly and give me an ultimatum. He says the terms are up to me and he doesn’t want to force me to do anything. He has had time to think he says.

YALL

I am so fucking lost, because we live in the same city and I haven’t blocked him on Facebook. He could have contacted my mom or me through there and he hasn’t. So I’m like you wanted this divorce and here I am trying to follow through and you’re fucking everything up. I don’t want to see him because of all the trauma he put me through. Why can’t he just sign the paperwork and leave me alone?

My mom set up a meeting for us to see each other in person with her being there this Saturday. My question is should I go? I am questioning everything now. I felt I had moved passed him and now my thoughts are spiraling. Please leave some advice.

Thank you ladies.