Im 6 months pregnant, we have a dog, the dog had been having diarrhea for a week and a half, shitting all over his crate. so I told my bf lets just give him one thing (his food) only and see if that’s the problem. Ok we agree, he was also told by the vet to give him bland things like rice. We’re going out to get food and he tells the dog to get in the crate and proceeds to give him a milk bone treat to which I say you’re going to be a terrible parent (I’m well aware that what I said specifically in this time of doubt and becoming new parents was the wrong thing to say and I apologized). I didnt mean it in as generalized statement and it was specific to the dog moment because he’s always spoiling the pup. He really got offended and hasnt said not one word to me since tues. Like he’ll come home or I’ll come home and and not say hi or anything. He’ll cook enough for himself and call it a night.

Ive apologized several times and I’ve explained it was a situational comment. That If I really thought he wouldn’t be a great father I wouldn’t have taken this any further.

I feel like a guest in my own home. I’m hiding out in the bedroom, sleeping super early because he takes over the tv and living room, and I don’t want to share space with someone who is going to completely ignore my existence.

Only time he said something was through text when I had had enough of being locked in the room and I went for a walk to speak to my male best friend of the situation and he txts me “what the fuck are you doing” to which I respond I’m leaving you alone, so I went for a walk, so then he responds “That’s cool and all, but as long as you still got my son attached to you, the night random dumb walks need to end. So bring your ass back.” So..... the walks to clear my head and stop from crying are a bit much but you haven’t even bothered to ask if I was hungry when you cooked or anything?

I know and I am well aware that what I said and the way I said it was wrong, and I’ve apologized idk what to do anymore.

UPDATE: so he went out last night, I’m going to assume with his buddies and got super drunk he’s been throwing up all morning and guess who is refilling his cup of ice cold water so he stays hydrated?? Yup me!