Lack of talking

Do you think a relationship that lacks conversation can last? My husband and I don’t talk about anything other than kids now. Its been years since we had an good conversations. We’ve lost that connection because we have a lot different interests so hard to just find something to talk about. Like the love isn’t there.

I’ve thought about counseling but then I have to go behind his back and tell him that I did if it leads to something it’s a thin line at least how I view it. I have been trying to focus on being a wife that is easy to love and makes him see what he loves about me to help bring that love out from him. Maybe he’ll want to talk more. Like, I don’t know if we can come back from this rough spot.