So, my mind runs high with anxiety so, I’ll keep this short without making it confusing.

I’m worried that the honeymoon phase in my relationship is over. My understanding is that it can stay if both partners make it a priority, ie not getting comfortable. So, I’ve been trying to keep up with that I guess while also still being myself.

My bf and I would talk every day but obviously because of work and kids it’s not exactly all day every day but enough to be reassured. It’s starting to dwindle now :/ like he’s going hours at a time not talking to me. And it’s driving my anxiety up the wall cause I’m wondering if it’s me ? I’m not saying he has to text all day and stuff but today he’s barely said anything to me /: if I do that (very far and few in between) he texts me stuff saying like I’m too busy for my man but now I feel like he’s too busy for his lady.

I just don’t understand how he could go all day long without saying much if anything at all to me when this isn’t how we started out. I love attention - male attention. So not getting any from him is just ugh. Lol. He said he was busy with the super bowl but that was all he’s said to me in 24hrs