Is it normal to miss the toxicity?

Question

A person was in a relationship for over 6 years and it was toxic as hell. They broke up but she misses him dearly. Is it normal or a cry for help?

Answer

Its normal to miss any relationship, even abusive or toxic. 
Our minds let us easily forget the negatives after a break up and we start to make this fantasy of happiness we had. 
Get her to write a list of the terrible times and terrible things vs a list of nice things about the relationship. She will soon be reminded of how toxic things where x 
Reminding her yourself will not help as it makes you look like the bad guy while she is missing him.

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Of course!

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Trauma bonding

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It’s normal to miss a person, regardless Of how toxic they were. You had a real attachment to that person, whether it was negative or positive. Releasing attachments is never easy. 
If you miss the actual toxicity of the relationship, I would encourage you to think a little bit deeper about that.￼￼ Perhaps toxicity is your idea of excitement and when it’s peaceful, it’s boring. I challenge you to find different, more healthy ways of finding excitement and passion in your life.￼

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Missing the relationship doesn’t mean she’s missing the toxicity

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they were together 6 years, she probably loved him even if it wasn't great always so ya completely normal

Is it normal to miss the toxicity?

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