My fiance's family lives 2 states over so they plan to visit us for the babys birth. I'm dreading this for 2 reasons. 1) His mother will be staying with us for 3 weeks and we live in a tiny 1 bedroom (basically a studio) apartment and 2) his entire family will be waiting in the hospital while I labor and as soon as the baby is born he's bringing them in. I get no say in any of this because they're visiting. The only people allowed in my room for the birth are my fiance and mother. Therefore I'm okay with his mom being there but not his 2 sisters and brother in law, who will be staying in town for 2 weeks for the babys birth and afterwards. I'll get no privacy and no time alone to bond with my baby because everyone expects to hold her immediately and will be staying at our place 24/7. I'm extremely stressed because I wanted a comfortable birth (this is my first) and to relax with just us 3 but that won't be happening 😔 I just wish they'd come like 2 weeks after the baby's birth instead of right away.