When people ask if I know how this happens I just look at them with a straight face and say “we have a lot of sex” and stare until they get uncomfortable.
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Al
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I'm pregnant with my 3rd and we did an iui to get pregnant and lots of people have asked me 'you know how that happens right?' I'm like um yeah i kinda paid a lot of money and took a lot of shots to get here so yes i know how babies are made
Al
Alexis • Feb 4, 2020
I hear you. I struggled with all 3 of my kids (pcos and endometriosis) I've had 2 surgeries done 4 total iui rounds but all people see is me with 3 kids all close in age and they assume i just dont know how to use birth control. A friend of mine even recently told me how they had started trying and had gone a few months and no luck and she honestly thought i just got pregnant on accident I'm like dude no it took a long time with them all 😒
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Nicole • Feb 4, 2020
This is our third too & it took us a year of fertility meds to get pregnant and the first trimester on progesterone to stay pregnant... everyone comments how lucky I am to have them close together & asks if I know how it happens and it’s annoying & hurtful. Getting & staying pregnant is so hard for me it’s not something I can laugh off
Ch
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Pregnant with my 4th and I have gotten the comment “you know how this keeps happening right?” To everyone asking if we are having anymore. But what really drives me crazy is that I have girl,boy,girl and everyone keeps saying it’ll be good for my son if this baby is a boy and hope it’s a boy. We know gender know one else does. Baby is a girl. My son doesn’t care, him and the baby will be 5.5 yrs apart I think he will be ok. That annoys me more 😆 sorry. Venting.
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Rakel • Feb 5, 2020
Awwww so cute and yes SOOOO TRUE!!!! that’s so great!!
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Christina • Feb 4, 2020
Yes my thoughts exactly. He won’t be afraid to go down the tampon aisle either or be afraid of periods lol. Yes he has sisters to be the protector but he also has sisters to protect him and be there for him. He is already a sensitive and sweet boy. He drives me crazy but he was the only kid I saw at the parade grabbing candy for a little girl who was to shy to. It was the sweetest. 💗
Ra
Rakel • Feb 4, 2020
It’s good for boys to grow up with lots of sister!!!! I think it teaches them naturally how to treat girls and women and their mama of course right!!!
Am
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I’m pregnant with my 7th and the unsolicited comments I already get are the reason we still have not announced this pregnancy. I cannot handle any more of the rude, arrogant comments. I get them CONSTANTLY when we go out in public. The comments would shock you.
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Rakel • Feb 4, 2020
😞that’s sad! I’m one of 5! It’s so fun being a child in a bigger family : )
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Oty • Feb 4, 2020
I’m so sorry and I totally understand. I’ve barely posted anything about this pregnancy and when I do I get those comments.
Fu
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🙄I have three kids and twins on the way! The number one question I get is “Are you getting your tubes tied?” Or I hear” if I was you I would get the tied! “Oh and the one that makes me extra mad is “Are you going to try for a girl?” What irritates me the most is no one does anything for the kids I have now! Why does it matter how many kids I have? If I’m getting my tubes tied? You don’t babysit nor do you buy anything for them! Just a bunch or people with a lot of unwanted opinions!
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