Hi y’all. i’m getting closer to giving birth to my twins! i’m 35 weeks today. i’ve been thinking a lot about how i want to go about this and bring it up, but

i’m nervous. this is my second pregnancy. after i had my first i feel like i didn’t get any alone time with just my fiancé and baby. everyone that was waiting at the hospital came in as soon as she was born. no one held her because i did skin to skin for two hours. the only person who held her the first day was my mom because she works in the hospital and when she came to work that night she stopped by my room.

well anyway, this time around i don’t want anyone to come in to our room for a few hours at least. since i’m having twins, i have to deliver in the OR, they’re both head down so we’re trying for a vaginal birth but may need a c section of something starts to go wrong. the only person allowed in the OR room is my fiancé. i know that since it’ll just be the two of us it probably won’t be too hard to keep everyone out because they won’t know until we tell them. will the doctors and nurses also keep it a secret and not tell anyone? i’m nervous to bring this up to my fiancé because i feel like he will get mad and think i’m targeting his family, but i’m not. i just want to spend alone time with him and our two new babies before people come in and bug me about holding them. :/