Not sure if this is the right group but seemed my best choice...

For those mamas out there who had very difficult pregnancy (for example, I had an incompetent cervix and needed a cerclage) how did you make the decision to have a second baby?

My husband and I are going back and forth, I had a pregnancy with high anxiety from two previous losses before I was diagnosed and would really like a second baby but not sure I could do it all over again and this time with a baby/toddler to look after too.